January 2011 | Love146.org

25
Jan

A Dad... and an advocate. Posted by Rob Morris

I am the father of 6 children. My 4 youngest are adopted. I am the President & Co-founder of a human rights organization working to end child trafficking and exploitation. I am deeply conflicted. Here is why:

When I was in Cambodia about 8 years ago, the Director of a large human rights agency asked me; “Do you really want to do something practical to stop child trafficking?” I of course answered yes. She said; “Then do something about international adoption.” At the time, I honestly wasn’t sure what she meant. She then went on to explain about how international adoption, if not done well and with vigilance, can fuel child trafficking.

To be truthful, my immediate reaction was defensiveness. I was even a little offended. Mostly because I am an adoptive father and I believe that adoption can be a viable and compassionate response to the global orphan crisis. But also offended, or more aptly put… mad as hell that traffickers would prey on the most vulnerable; turning orphans into commodities.

Since that conversation I’ve learned a lot and continue to learn, from my daily fight to end child trafficking and exploitation, as well as from our family’s own journey of international and domestic adoptions.

I’ve discovered she was right. Intercountry adoption, if not regulated and monitored can contribute to the trafficking of children. Trafficking occurs within international adoption when children are taken illegally from birth families through “child buying”, coercion, kidnapping, etc. They are then sold (often times with falsified documentation) to orphanages, “facilitators” or to adoptive parents as “legitimate” orphans, implying the child's parents are dead, when in fact the child's parents are still alive. Trafficking can also occur when children are left at orphanages by their parents for temporary care or in the hopes of receiving an education, and they are illegally placed for adoption without the parents knowledge or consent, under the pretense that they are true orphans.

The reports of cases involving the trafficking of children for adoption seem to be multiplying, sometimes resulting in the arrests of “facilitators” and the shutting down of orphanages and even agencies. The US State Department has closed the international adoption programs to several countries due to trafficking.

Many of the root causes behind trafficking and the orphan crisis are the same. Poverty, conflict, natural disasters, disease, injustice, corruption, greed, gender and racial discrimination all create extreme vulnerability. Traffickers prey not only upon vulnerable children, but also the desperate circumstances of birth families and the good intentions of compassionate adoptive parents.

I get concerned when I see an approach of “finding children for families” within the adoption world. This only increases “demand”, and demand fuels the trafficking and exploitation of children. Our approach instead, must be one of finding families for children. And this needs to include extended family or foster/adoptive families within the child’s own country. While I believe that most intercountry adoptions are ethical and not corrupted by child trafficking, the issues still exist and must be addressed.

I think often times we are much better at dealing with the consequences and results of these systemic issues than we are at preventing them. Building more safehomes is not the answer to ending child trafficking, just as adoption is not the solution to the growing number of children who are orphaned. These responses are compassionate, loving and effective acts made necessary by the above causes.

William Sloane Coffin Jr. said; “To show compassion for an individual without showing concern for the structures of society that make him an object of compassion is to be sentimental rather than loving.”

It’s like the story I’ve heard of people falling off of a cliff. There are those at the bottom of the cliff scrambling to provide care to those falling off and driving ambulances back and forth, shuttling broken people from the foot of the cliff to the hospital. At some point someone gets the idea of building a guardrail at the top of the cliff to prevent people from falling off.

Frankly…until we build guardrails…until we address and go after the reasons why children are trafficked or why there are millions of orphans on the planet today, there will always be another trafficking victim. There will always be another child orphaned. I long for the day, and will continue to work toward the day, when that will no longer be the case.

Because the issues surrounding intercountry adoption and child trafficking are complex, it would be impossible to cover all of these in a blog post. So if you are interested, here are some links to resources to further understand the issues and possible solutions.

http://adoption.state.gov/hague/overview.html

http://adoption.state.gov/

http://www.ethicanet.org/

http://www.jcics.org/

http://www.adoptionintegrity.com/

http://www.adoptinginternationally.com/

http://www.pear-now.org/

And now…your thoughts?

-Rob (Proud adoptive Dad…and human rights advocate)

Rob Morris
President
Love146

Follow me on Twitter HERE

11
Jan

The New Black? Posted by Rob Morris

Reblogged from November 11th, 2009 in commemoration of National Human Trafficking Awareness Day:

Is the anti-trafficking movement the new black?

I was recently asked if I was concerned that the current anti-trafficking or “Modern day abolition” movement might be only a trend, and the current growth and passion that are fueling it will quickly diminish as the “next trendy cause comes along.” Another person asked if I thought that “people might be just jumping on a band wagon?”

The words, “abolition” and “movement” are words that I have come to hold sacred. When I hear these words used merely for a campaign, fundraising scheme, or marketing tactic, I honestly cringe. They are diminished.

To think of the price that abolitionists have paid throughout history to end slavery, or the sacrifices people have made for movements that have challenged and changed unjust structures and systems that oppressed multitudes, I recoil at anything that might cheapen those words.

Sometimes I think we have the belief that if we use the word “movement” often enough, maybe we can actually start one. Or we mistake growing awareness as “the movement.” While awareness is vital and certainly part of “movement”, if awareness doesn’t lead to further action, it is only a shouting into the wind. Mark Twain said; “Noise proves nothing. Often a hen who has merely laid an egg cackles as if she laid an asteroid.” Or as my Mom, used to warn… “Don’t be all bark and no bite.”

This “sacredness” has been helpful for us here at Love146, as it informs how we address modern day slavery. We use it as a bar or litmus test for all of our efforts and programs, forcing us to ask the questions; Does this effort have teeth to it? Is it helpful? How will it contribute to ending modern day slavery and exploitation? And, how will it help to restore and empower survivors? If we can’t answer these questions…we don’t do it.

A trend is defined as; “The general direction in which something tends to move.” So, at the end of the day if the movement to end human trafficking is a “trend” but is moving us all in the right direction, then that is a good thing. If, when the “band wagon” rides by, and the dust eventually settles, there are more people still standing & fighting then there were before… then count me in!

-Rob

Rob Morris
President
Love146

Follow me on Twitter HERE

05
Jan

Resolve Posted by Rob Morris

“I resolve to continue accepting my self for who I am right now. …to be stronger, to continue fighting and never give up.”

“I resolve to have a new life.”

“I resolve to study hard to achieve my dreams.”

“I resolve to not give up, no matter what trials come my way, and to be true to myself.”

These are the resolutions from some of the girls in the Love146 Round Home.

A resolution is defined as: “the act of resolving/determining upon an action.”

Our resolution here at Love146?

We resolve to do everything within our power, to see the resolutions of these amazing children become a reality.

Are you with us?

-Rob

President
Love146
Follow me on Twitter HERE